Alice Don’t Live Here Anymore

Posted on April 2nd, 2009 in Social Skills arzumy, freelance, ruby on rails

Or rather, Arzumy don’t blog here anymore. Oh no!!!
But no worries. There are few ways you can work with Arzumy. Just follow these instructions

You can find Arzumy at ar.zu.my
Just say hello @arzumy in twitter, he’ll reply hey @yournamehere
If you are young enough to have a Facebook account

Or of course, the plain old boring email – [...]

How To Be Humble And Rake Millions.

Posted on May 22nd, 2008 in Social Skills guy kawasaki, humble, make millions

Guy Kawasaki is sure a humble person.
Maybe it is because he has seen a lot. Maybe that’s how he is since the very beginning. Maybe he is just faking it.
The truth is, I don’t know.
Although he’s well known around the world doing things he’s well known for, he never got a problem answering
“Honestly, I [...]

The Altered Truth About Lying

Posted on March 18th, 2008 in Social Skills lie, memory, truth

…or how to lie.
It’s all about perspective my friend.
But before that, here’s a disclaimer. I don’t know why you want to lie. I don’t advocate lying. But maybe there’s a day where you will have to lie. It could be for business, could be to save life, and could be thousand of valid reasons. I [...]

Excuse Me, Did You Just Fart?

Posted on February 27th, 2008 in Social Skills brain fart, communication, speech

Lately I’ve been listening to a lot of speakers with brain farts. It’s annoying really like… umm, well…you know… we should try um aaa you know.
See? Isn’t that annoying?
Back then when I was in English Communication Skill class (or something like that), the lecturer really pissed off when our brain farted. I do understand now [...]

Ask Me a Stupid Question

Posted on February 17th, 2008 in Social Skills listen, question, stupid

Johnny Saviour from http://charismaarts.com/ once said;
“It’s only stupid when you are not genuinely interested”
So, he claimed, contrary to popular belief – there’s no such thing as stupid question; stupid question do exists. I believe him. Never met this guy, but what he said really makes sense. For example, What is 1+1? That’s a valid question, [...]

How To Walk Effortlessly Through Crowd

Posted on February 15th, 2008 in Social Skills busy, crowd, walk

I hate large crowd. Especially when they are all over the walkways, make me hard to move around. This will always be true during shopping season. I always have to skillfully maneuver myself around countless body shape.
It works perfectly well, except that it always left me exhausted. It’s not easy gracefully move around people without [...]